If There is No Struggle, There is No Progress


In fancy terms, that means No Pain, No Gain. Growing up, we are taught that patience is a virtue. Be patient. The lessons you learn today will prepare you for tomorrow. To lose patience is to lose the battle. Well folks, we can tell you that we are doing our best to NOT lose the battle. We have been tested in more ways these past 8 weeks than ever before. But with family, friends, God and each other, we have made it to TWO WEEKS BEFORE CHRISTMAS. Not sure how times flies so fast when there is so much to be done, but it always does. Let’s get you caught up on what has been happening with the Flores renovation for the past few months.

Basement Battle

On May 18th, 2022 we had our first, and only, in person meeting with the owner of the company we hired to pour our basement foundation. We were told at that time, from start to finish, it should take 4 weeks to fully complete our basement project. On August 31st their crew started the first day on the job. At that time, we were hopeful to have our basement completed by the first of October. That would put us on schedule to have the house moved by the first to middle of October. On September 26th, 4 weeks into the project, the exterior walls for our basement foundation were finally poured. We were relatively disappointed with how slow progress was happening, but none the less, eager to see walls done and ready for flooring to be poured.

Unfortunately, there was no progress made to the basement again. After numerous unanswered texts, calls and emails we had to cut ties with the company we hired due to lack of overall communication and major issues with meeting any/all expectations. We began to seek out help in getting the remainder of our project completed before the freezing temperatures made it impossible to set concrete.

We were incredibly grateful that a local contractor, Brennan Johnson of Elite Construction, and masonry professional, Travis Schwerdtfager, stepped up and said they could finish what had been started. By the end of the day on October 27th, we had a clear plan for getting the remainder of the floor poured and ready to go within a two-week timeframe. We are very pleased to say that less than two weeks later, on November 10th, we got a basement floor poured and were given the green light to let our house movers know we are ready to MOVE THAT HOUSE! If there is no struggle, there is no progress. The lessons you learn today will prepare you for tomorrow. SO TRUE!

October 14th, we hired the help of dad/father-in-law Ron to help us do some backfilling of dirt around the outside of the basement walls
Progress finally being made again at the basement site! Photo taken November 6th, plumbing rough ins being laid out before rebar is set and concrete is poured
Just a few days later, November 8th, rebar is completely set and ready for concrete
And just like that, we have concrete getting poured! We were out of town with doctors’ appointments for the kiddos but were overjoyed when we got pictures and videos of so much progress being made in one day! Photos taken Nov 10th
Entire basement floor poured. The concrete guys had to lay blankets over the final project because just 24 hours after being poured the temperatures plummeted into the teens. The blankets help hold the heat in the concrete which is what helps the concrete set solid. Photo taken Nov 18th.

Digging for Water

Associated drilling of Olsburg Kansas agreed in August to come drill a new well for our home site. When we called and scheduled our drilling, they informed us they were 3 months out for any new bookings. We were excited to get a phone call on October 25th asking if they could come drill our well on the 26th. By the end of the day on the 26th we had a well! Everything went incredibly smooth, and we had an amazing experience working with Kyler and his team.

Kyler and his crew were lightning fast and so much fun to watch work!
The entire process reminded me of the movie Armageddon
Photo on the left is after roughly 10 feet into the ground
Photo on the right is after roughly 40 feet into the ground
When all the dust, and water, had settled the only thing left was the pipe that now sticks out of the ground awaiting to be hooked up and ran to the house

Moving a House

You may wonder, what does it take to literally pick a house up off its foundation and move it down the road? Have no fear, we had no idea either! There is an amazing demand in this part of the world for companies that move houses. We have hired Unruh House Moving out of Galva Kansas, and it blows our mind to see how busy they are. They are picking houses up at least one every week, how crazy is that? Whether you need it moved down the road or if you are building a basement under your existing structure, Unruh is the company you call within a 2-state radius.

We have met them 3 different times now and are extremely impressed with their professionalism and knowledge. We have sadly had to delay multiple moving dates because of our issues with getting the basement foundation completed.

After months of delays, we have scheduled our house to move during the week of January 9th. The entire process can take anywhere from 4-6 days, depending on the house conditions and also the weather conditions. Once they have arrived where the house sits currently, it will take 3 days to jack up and move it onto their trailers. When the house is secured on the trailer it will be moved to our new location all in one day. Depending on how smooth things go with moving day, they will either slide the house to its new foundation the same day or, come back the following day to move it from their trailers to the foundation. Any way you look at it we are SO excited to finally have a set week on the calendar to get this house rolling!

Interior Demo

Second floor demo

Last time I wrote we had just started demo on the attic floor/second story ceiling. What a mess that project was! We started knocking down the ceiling on October 3rd and finally by the end of the day October 17th we had the entire second story ceiling tore off and the mess cleaned up. It is amazing how different it feels up there now having the ceiling joists exposed and being able to see all the way to under the roof.

Upstairs landing and the girls bedroom after knocking down the ceilings
Photo taken Oct 6th
The girls bedroom upstairs after knocking down the ceiling, WHAT A MESS
Photo taken Oct 6th
Cleanup! Never! Ends!
Photos taken Oct 17th after finally getting the entire upstairs cleaned up from ceiling removal
Final plaster and lathe removal upstairs was the staircase exterior wall. We are glad no one walked in while we did this project, it was probably less safe than desirable, but we all survived!
Photo taken Nov 28th
Kitchen demo

November 7th was the day we tackled kitchen cabinet demo. Our original plan was to salvage as many of the kitchen cabinets as we could to reuse in the basement kitchenette. However, as we got further into the demo process, we realized that kitchens of this era were not actually constructed of individual cabinets, like we are accustomed to in modern construction. Rather, the entire kitchen, with the exception of the corner cabinets, was pieced together one board at a time. The interior shelves of the entire wall of cabinetry were all one board. So rather than being able to remove the kitchen one whole cabinet at a time, we took it apart board by board. Talk about your classic lesson in patience!

Cabinet removal Nov 7th

After meticulously deconstructing the kitchen, we decided we needed to end the day with a little less-tedious demo. We proceeded to begin tearing the downstairs bathroom apart. We found it very interesting to see how father time had taken his tole on the color of wallpaper in there.

Years of exposure to light made the wallpaper a completely different color. Behind the medicine cabinet we learned the original wallpaper color was actually blue.
An assortment of goodies we found while cleaning out the medicine cabinet.
Photo taken Nov 7th
First floor wall demo

On November 30th we were able to begin the long-awaited demo of the first floor. It seems to be going slow, but steady none the less. We have completely taken plaster out of the old dining room and have begun removing lathe. I have taken roughly 40% of the trim/woodwork out of the living room. As soon as that room is clear of all woodwork, we will begin removing plaster and lathe. The kitchen and downstairs bathroom were remodeled sometime in the 60s-70s so the walls of those two rooms are sheetrock. Demo for those rooms should be very quick. The only room that leaves is the front sitting room, which is currently acting as our storage room. We are excited to have the challenge of getting the entire home gutted before the moving date in January.

First thing we had to do in the dining room was remove the drop ceiling. We discovered the drop ceiling had been added most likely because of the extensive water damage that was occurring to the exterior wall ceiling.
Photo taken Nov 30th
Once the drop ceiling was removed, we could start on the plaster removal
Photos taken Nov 30th
By the end of the day, all plaster was removed, and we started on the lathe. We are hoping to have this room completely gutted within the next week.
Photos taken Nov 30th

Community Awareness

MakeMyMove

From the very first day we knew we were moving to Lincoln, we have had community awareness in the forefront of our thoughts and decisions. We have many thoughts and dreams for projects and outreaches that will extend far beyond the ‘small’ world of our personal renovation journey. We(mostly me, Julie) will often find myself dreaming LARGE of things that we can do to help better, grow, and increase the value of our small town. There are endless opportunities for involvement and leadership roles here, that is one of the things I love most about small-town America. We were honored to be a featured family for an upcoming marketing promotion that the Economic Development office sponsored.

On November 2nd we were happy to host the folks from MakeMyMove. They are a company based out of Indianapolis Indiana that specialize in bringing new people to communities. They partner with local economic development type committees to devise a plan for incentives, marketing campaigns and social awareness related to getting people to move to “your” town.

There was a camera crew on site to capture the ‘magic’ of our growing family of 5 taking on a complete fixer upper in a town that needs more motivated and driven community members. It was such a blast to tell our story on such a large scale, we were truly humbled to be interviewed and we loved sharing our story of how we came to live in our small town. The campaign is still in production mode, but we are excited to see the end result and to share it with you all!

Was a breezy cool fall morning, but we were honored to show off our house during the sunrise of a Kansas morning
Photo taken Nov 2nd
Getting to share our renovation journey as well as trying to promote our community is an incredible experience
Photo taken Nov 2nd
We are always so excited anytime we can involve our children in our projects. We know they are young enough they may not remember a lot of what is happening, but we are hopeful to instill the experience into their memories and to continue to create memories as we go!
Photo taken Nov 2nd

www.makemymove.com

Northwest Kansas Today

Another opportunity that we were able to be a part of was an interview for a magazine called Northwest Kansas Today. Below is a little about the magazine.

Northwest Kansas Today is published quarterly by the Dane G. Hansen Foundation and distributed to all residents of the foundation’s 26-county service area in Northwest Kansas. Each issue will feature the area’s businesses, arts, lifestyle, communities and people.

The Hansen Trustees believe that this publication, highlighting the many positive attributes of the region, will contribute to the sense of pride for our communities. It also can be used by residents and businesses to recruit new people to the area. Readers are encouraged to share their copy with friends and family who do not live in Northwest Kansas.

Northwest Kansas Today is distributed at no cost to all verified post office addresses in the Hansen Foundation’s 26-county service area. It is designed to share stories for and about the people and communities in Northwest Kansas.

Taken from the danehansenfoundation.org ABOUT page

On November 17th I was able to be involved in a phone interview with Erin Mathews, a writer for the magazine. Erin explained that the magazine was going to be doing several housing related stories in the February issue, highlighting various initiatives that different communities have tried to attract new residents. She had planned to do one on what was going on in Lincoln, mostly because of the countywide open houses Kelly Gourley(Economic Development director) had been doing. However, when Erin talked to Kelly, she realized that the open houses were only a small part of the story. She was very interested in our history with Lincoln and how we found our way to living here.

Just like the marketing campaign, the article is still in production, but we are so excited to see the final product. It is very honoring and humbling to be chosen for these opportunities, especially knowing how many motivated and amazing people already reside in Lincoln and have been promoting it for many more years than us. We hope that our contributions will help the community grow and be a better place for us and future generations!

NORTHWEST KANSAS TODAY MAGAZINE – Dane G. Hansen Foundation (danehansenfoundation.org)

Family, Friends and Fun

It seems the work to our renovation is ever mounting and never ending, which is also the case with our lives as a family of 5. These past few months have been filled to over-flowing with school, work, doctors’ visits, sickness, parties, and all the things life can throw your way. But without all the craziness we would not be able to enjoy the fun!

Seems like with little ones we have more sick days than healthy. We have spent so much time this fall being sick, we are praying for a healthy Christmas and New Year and for all those families out there currently struggling!
Fall on the farm is so sweet with toddlers. Everything is new and must be explored!
We had so much fun carving pumpkins from Grandma Jo’s garden
Speaking of Grandma’s, we were overjoyed to have Grandma Flores come spend a week with us on her fall break. The kids were in heaven!
Cousin Emalie had her Senior Night for volleyball, and we were happy we could go and support her and the team
School parties have been plentiful for Lily, top photo was from just a few days ago when we celebrated Lily’s 4th birthday at school. Bottom two photos are from Lily’s Thanksgiving party before fall break. She is having so much fun at school and loves seeing all her new friends every day!
November 22nd, I took our son Drey to Olathe to get tubes placed in his ears. He has always suffered from ear infections and has a significant speech delay that we are hoping tubes will help. He recovered amazingly fast and is back to his normal energetic mischievous self!
Also on November 22nd Eddie and Sophie traveled to California to be with family. Eddie’s Grandmother Mercy Gonzalez passed away and was laid to rest on the 22nd. They had a beautiful trip seeing family and celebrating Grandmas life.
We are EXPERTS at traveling by now! Last we looked, Eddie put roughly 4,000 miles on his car in the past two months. Our children are incredibly good at sleeping in the car and knowing where all the McDonalds are between here and Kansas City!
Christmas time is extra magical when you have little ones. We love seeing the joy and mystery in their eyes as we discover new things about the season.
We are extremely thankful to Allison Johnson for capturing this family photo of us in front of the fireplace at our renovation house. This will be a memory that will last forever!

We want to wish you all a Merry Christmas and we pray your holiday season is full of the magic of Christs’ birth. Until we write again.


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4 responses to “If There is No Struggle, There is No Progress”

  1. I am so jealous of your house…what an incredible journey….please keep us updated with your progress!!° Your family is beautiful!!!!!

  2. Enjoying your journey. We also love in an old house over
    100 years old. We have also kept the original woodwork.
    Yours looks similar to ours. We love our old house! Enjoy it like we do ours.